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Dear Editor,
I never thought I’d see the day when we’d have to talk about armed security guards at funerals, but after recent violent incidents at two services here in Antigua, it feels like there’s no other choice.
Funerals are supposed to be about paying our last respects, but lately, they’re being torn apart by unresolved family drama and senseless violence. It’s heartbreaking, and it’s making an already painful experience even harder for grieving families.
In light of these incidents, having armed security at funerals and in churches isn’t about dramatics—it’s about safety. When emotions run high and estranged relatives are brought face-to-face, things can escalate fast.
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With security present, families can mourn in peace without constantly looking over their shoulders. Armed guards could prevent arguments from boiling over into violence, allowing us to honor the dead without fearing for the living.
There’s also a deeper issue at play here, one that goes beyond security measures. It feels like respect for sacred spaces is slipping away. Funerals used to be times when families would set their differences aside, even if just for a couple of hours.
Nowadays, it seems like those boundaries don’t hold the same weight. We’re losing the values that kept us grounded, and it’s a sad thing to witness. CLICK HERE TO JOIN OUR WHATS APP GROUP
So yes, let’s talk about security, but let’s also talk about bringing respect and decency back to these moments.
Maybe we could even take a few extra steps—families could sit down ahead of time to air out tensions or bring in a neutral party to keep things calm. It might feel awkward, but it’s worth it if it means we can gather without the threat of violence hanging over our heads.
At the end of the day, funerals should be a time to come together, not fall apart. Let’s make sure they stay that way.
Sincerely,
Row 1, Pew 1, Seat A
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The irony of the letter is family and friends are rhe ones fighting amongst each other. So the security’s presence is really to protect family against family etc and not what the letter is saying.
Good suggestion and this helps with employing more people. Hopefully, they pay the security guards well and the companies don’t try to make more profits by bringing in low paid workers from bad countries.
No, we don’t need to talk about armed security guards at funerals! This is the stupidest thing I’ve read in weeks! If you have drama with your relatives and are too scared to attend then stay home and pay your respects at the gravesite at a later date. This is a small island and sooner or later you will run into family members/rivals you do not like so whatcha going to do then? You need to toughen up, buttercup.
When you invade people’s space, you get a punch in the face. Follow the leader.
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Whoever wrote this letter is a clown.
Seems like the only time some of these people enter a church is to “pay their respects”. Judging from some of the outfits they don’t even respect themselves. I do believe it has never been this bad but I think as well, that the ubiquity of mobile phones and social media has made it more obvious.
That might be expensive. Most security guards are actually watchmen. They don’t carry any kind of weapon.
Keep that nasty behaviour at bay.
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