I have been with my husband for over ten years now and the relationship was really good. We just got married last year and now it’s like all things are turning for the worst. Nothing I do now ever makes him happy, he complains about everything and it even gets as bad as he tells me to go away and move back home with my parents. I refuse to go back to my parents because I am an adult.
He constantly curses me everyday about my weight, about how his life would be so much better without me, how the wedding day was the biggest mistake of his life and how he regrets it so much. Don’t get me wrong I love my husband and I know he has some kind of love for me, but it’s as if all these negative thoughts and his actions are coming from a higher, or should i say lower, power (the Devil).
I just wanna make my marriage work because we make a really good team together but at the moment we are really down financially. I do all I can do to support him in whatever way I can. He says I’m fake because no one can be that nice and that positive, I told him I can’t act, and no one could put up an act for that long. Look I love my husband with all my heart and I just wanna make it work.
Right now am trying to make children, it’s a bit tough but I am just trusting God.One time he wants to have kids with me soo badly and another time he says he don’t want nothing to do with me. What should I do? Because almost every other day or even two, three times a day he tells me to go back cause he doesnt want me.
Dear Down n Depressed,