Dear Kate, I’m married to a sex maniac

I am married to a man who doesn’t seem to understand that a woman can get tired. My husband and I are Christian’s and we go according to biblical principles but I think he is taking “the wife doesn’t have authority over her own body” too literally. My husband wants to have sex all night and during the day too. I mean there’s no set time. I could be washing dishes, cleaning the house or even cooking and he would want it right then and there. It’s worst when we go out because he wants to stop off on the way and let me have it. And Kate, his penis isn’t small. Sometimes I get bruised. I love my husband. I want to please him sexually but I don’t think I can handle this constant throbbing day and night. I want to speak to our pastor but the topic is embarrassing. What do you think I should do.

Linda

Hello Linda,

I feel your pain. No woman wants to be bulldozed day and night by an oversized penis. Have you spoken to your husband about your concerns? I reckon that you are worried he may find it elsewhere if you don’t give in. Your husband needs to know he’s damaging your “inside”.  Seeking spiritual counsel from your pastor is a good idea since you and your husband are Christians. Your husband may be a sex maniac but he needs to show compassion and love to you. And that would not be trying to beat your private part into extinction. I say talk to him and you both must agree to speak to your spiritual elder. Or you could come to an agreement to reduce the number of times you have sex in a day or even week. For the bruising try using a lubricant. Afterall the size of his penis is no fault to him.

Kate