DEAR KATE: Her Toys Make Me Feel Useless


Dear Kate,

My girl seems to be more into the use of sex toys than she is into me.

I didn’t realize we had an issue in the bedroom until I see that she began to roll out huge dildos and some beads looking tool.

I don’t feel comfortable using them on her because it makes me feel insignificant.

Like I am useless. So, I have stopped. Now she would be so rude and disrespectful and use it right in front of me until she is satisfied.

Kate I am useless and I am thinking of ending things. What do you think?


Hello Useless,

I would feel useless too and wanted, even not man enough.

I get it that some couples may want to enhance their sex lives and be a little different in the bedroom but your “girl” seems to be doing fine on her own.

Whether or not you want to leave her is your choice.

You know what you can and cannot take but nobody would want to stay in a relationship where they feel like that


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  1. You are USELESS….to her that is. Rip off the band-aid and walk…no RUN away. Find someone who makes you feel USEFUL and WANTED.

  2. Useless, get in where you fit in. No reason to miss out on the fun. Of she have toys then you can join in too. Get creative, use your “head” and figure some tings out or something. If you can “stand up” to the task then “face” up to it.

  3. if u want someone to make u feel useful and wanted look am right here some girls in antigua really dont know what they have til its gone

    • U got to be ugly…just kidding no one ugly

  4. Good advice BUT he seems to be very shy and maybe he is not very useful outside of the bedroom (like many men)…I dont think those two will last

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