LETTER: Father Continuously Raped Daughter Now It is Affecting Her Life

What would really influence a man to do this to his daughter? This is just so sick

The legal system should have taken a look into this… no matter how long ago it was… Every victim matter!!!!!!!!!!

I can only imagine how this is eat up on the inside… She had to face this alone all these years and now it hard for her to go forward…. it has destroyed her so bad.. Sigh…. Prayers for her !!!!

So where is her mother, Didn’t she notice something different or wrong with her daughter? This is just so sick. SMH

This is why i will always say our legal system is trash. No one should be afraid to go forward with this type of reports. The police and our legal should accept everybody… no matter what the case may be. THe young lady be ashamed or scared to come forward.

Sad. There is an institution called Legal Aide. Please contact them for advise on this matter. Sometimes name and shame is the only way. Praying for your situation

As a boyfriend finding this out about your girlfriend, you need to have patience with her.. Work with her and try to help heal for all of this Trama.

Sad to say, but in Antigua the justice system is off. They talk about rape and still do it. Also be reminded there are many rapist within the Royal Police Force. But to go on, may this young lady seek the counseling she needs, or even turn to God. You sir can protect her and love her and make her feel protected. Sorry to hear, and get that little sister out of there, she may be hurting and can’t talk either

Lord protect my daughter, because he knows i will K*** a man for my child.. SMH

Get her to a mental health professional. Provide the necessary support.

End the relationship and move on. Let the professionals deal with the broken.

I hope she heals from this trauma and gets the support she deserves because this so sad. Prayers.

I believe the reason why our legal system doesn’t take these reports serious, its because they know that there so predators among them. Why can’t we trust them to at least try and get justice or the truth on a matter??? We as people deserve better!!!!!!!

The legal system in Antigua is in urgent need of reform to ensure transparency, efficiency, and fairness for all citizens. A structured, step-by-step approach should be implemented to improve access to justice. For example, every police report should be accompanied by an official document detailing the officer’s name, badge number, and the location where the report was made. This would enhance accountability and facilitate follow-ups, preventing cases from being neglected or lost in the system.

Additionally, the Veronica Thomas family court system requires immediate attention, as many citizens feel that justice is not being served equitably, particularly for those with limited financial resources. Judicial officers must demonstrate both competence and compassion in their roles, ensuring that every individual, regardless of socioeconomic status, receives fair treatment. If inefficiencies or biases are present within the system, appropriate measures—such as improved oversight, training, or reassignment—should be considered.

Legal reforms must prioritize justice for all, fostering a system that upholds integrity, fairness, and accountability. Community engagement, advocacy, and legislative action are critical in driving these much-needed changes.

I pray that she gets justice, and that he pays for what he did! And I hope that he is not doing the same thing to her young sister… Sigh🙏

Go to Gender Affairs and Women Against Rape with Alexandrina Wong. They will pursue the case in her favor through the courts. They are trained in this area better than the police. The police will become involved after department is satisfied with her story.
I wish you both well in the pursuit of justice.

This is truly a sad situation which should have been addressed from the first instance! This sounds like a Epstein/PDiddy scenario! Men taking addressed of the situation and exploiting it as a means of power and control! Sickening! As a father of three children next to loosing a child through some tragedy, this would be the next worst feeling to have experienced! May she find peace in Grace of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord!🙏🙌♥️♥️🙌🙏

May the God of love, peace, mercy and comfort. Protect you. Comfort you heal you from all your heart and pain and I pray. You’ll find the counseling that you need and that the boyfriend will help you through all that you are going through and I pray that your father will come to himself give in to the authorities and confess I pray that the father will be unrested confused depress frustrated all because of what he had done and giving. I pray he have no peace and the same measure the daughter is suffering he will suffer mentally a 100 time more I pray that every time the girl feel pain and cry. The father would have a mental breakdown I pray that
he he will be just walking and confessing and confessing to everyone he comes in contact with included his daughter.
He need to be casterated and beheaded

This has happened to a friend of mine who is now in her Twenties.
His excuse is, that the mother withheld sex from him.
The mother, when she found out, asked the husband to apologize to his 3 daughters. Said mother threatened daughters that if they told police what happened, she would disown them.
The 2 oldest has prostituted themselves and was sexually abused by other family members.

Smh
Sad 😔

First off I would like to commend this young man for his bravery coming forward with this.
You and your girlfriend need counselling and legal guidance.
Since you really seem to want to help her try talking this out with her about seeking professional help. Let her know that she has nothing, NOTHING, to be ashamed about. She has not done anything wrong and for the health of your relationship going forward you want to help her put that painful episode of her life behind her. It is not going to be easy, but there are spaces wherein you both can get help.
I would start with a counsellor and legal aid after talking it out with her again, or maybe going to a counsellor yourself for professional help in how to reach her. Most of all continue being empathetic towards her and loving her for the person she is. Try not to let the intimacy be about sex alone.
I pray the best for you both going forward.

Stories like these anger me because I’ve been through similar. My advice is don’t pressure her to pursue it if she doesn’t want to

this makes my blood boil!!!! 😡. i hope she recovers from all this abuse. no one deserves this

This is ridiculous…. when will ppl allow justice to take its course….. if this woman officer allow her brother to go free after putting his own daughter through hell…. she is no better than him.

Somebody should rape her mercilessly and let her feel what her neice is going through.

There’s such this as Justice system in Antigua? Whoever he has in the force should be ashamed of herself. You are a woman as well, brother or not, could even be your very own husband, get him off the streets. Who knows how many young ladies he’s done or doing this to. Then y’all judge these young ladies by the way they behave. This is not right. He needs to be killed

Hire me for tek he out in the most gruesome way Mr Writer!!😈

Humans are without a doubt the worst animal created.
That said, your girlfriend needs some sort of professional intervention to get over the feeling of shame. Once that is dealt with to the level where she is more comfortable. She needs to go back to the sexual offenses office and make that report again. That father should be caged!!!

So did I read that the father family is a cop? Then okkkkkll. Justice for Manny. Justice for Bruce Greenway. Justice for Jenifer. Justice for Passo. Justice for archazia

The father may or may not read this. Regardless, wanting him to read this and feel her pain is unlikely going to happen. The reality is, he probably perpetrated others. The reality is, the family knew. They turned a blind eye. As a Sexual Abuse Prevention Specialist, I want to say that ALL children should be taught Sexual Abuse Prevention, in the schools. To the writer, it is wonderful your partner shared her trauma. Keep talking about this problem. No more silence but protect her name and privacy and ensure she has the therapeutic support she needs to move forward to lead a healthy life. If you have children, NEVER EVER let them near the perp.

The devil is a liar!!!! That father sure will get his karma if it hasn’t knocked on his door yet.

Omg! This is so sad. I don’t know this young lady but I am so sorry. Dear God give her strength to go through this nightmare.

Such unfortunate events in the life of a young lady. Can’t even live her life in peace. Fathers never know what they are doing to their daughters. And i will not speak of the justice system in Antigua. The corrupted pokice force are the reason crime wont stop

I can tell that u love ur girl friend.. hearts off to u.. don’t allow this to break ur guys give it to God in pray, pray together and ask God to guide ur way together.

U all can even do a fast and pray ask God to break the barriers and bring justice and peace to u guys and to strengthen ur relationship