I have had four politician lovers from the same party

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Dear Kate,

There is something wrong with me. I have been in relationships with at least four politicians from the same party.
I know it looks like I might be just being passed around like a hand towel but it is really not like that. As a matter of fact, I don’t think they know about each other.
The thing about it KateΒ is that I cannot date aΒ low-class man. I am a woman of stature and I have to look a certain way and have certain things and only men of that caliber can give it to me.
Now this last man of mine which I’ve had for about 7 months now told me we have to end it because elections are around the corner and we need not give the other side anything to attack him with because he’s married.
Now I got angry and I accidentally sent a pic of us to his wife. Now he wants nothing to do with me. I’m worried that I may never get another man like him.
I can’t manage another politician in my bed. Help me get him back Kate.
GovGirl
Hello GovGirl
Even if I had the powers to help you get this man back, I’m not sure I would. Firstly he is married. Secondly, you’reΒ  with him for the wrong reasons.
Thirdly, you’re a dangerous mistress and fourthly, I think you’ve had just about enough politicians to last you the rest of your life.
Now having said all of that, there must be a renewal of your mind if you ought to get your life straightened out.
In fact, there’s hope. Why? Because you are still above ground. The first thing you need to do is humble yourself.
I mean get that mindset that you need to live a certain way and have certain things out of your head. All you need is to be comfortable.
And you don’t need a man of any “caliber ” to help you rise up. You should be able to do that all by yourself.
Know your worth. Forget about these men. Love yourself and sooner or later I’m sure you will find someone who can double up what these politicians ever did for you. And even if you don’t it will still be okay because you’veΒ  got you!!
Kate

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36 COMMENTS

  1. Why do these people write this crap hoping to get advice? Someone needs to tell this girl that what she’s doing is not right? Look at what she’s worried about…..she’s more concerned about losing the married man and the fancy way of life than what this means for her reputation. We really have our values twisted these days. I’m sorry for young people.

  3. 4 politicians. I hope it’s the party in power. Hope ya pocket full. Get a real man. Politicians aren’t human.
    Love yaself and u’ll find the one.

  4. Miss, politicians are the most low class men around here. You need to get your life. Hard work never kill smaddy.

  6. Who send u to be petty?

    Kate: ” No you never accidentally send no pic to his wife you thought up the whole thing and saw the results in your head, but the plan backfired….This is a result of your stupidity, nobody send you to go dunce the thing. You say you have stature, go get a job , maybe education so you can work to legit gain this stature and maintain it .

    So you have no stature now?

  11. πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚…..

    4 POLITICIANS….GYAL UR PORKIE MUST BE TIRED….
    INSTEAD OF TRYING TO GET HIM BACK GO SCRAP ALL DEM CUM OFF UR THROATBACK….

    THIS IS SADNESS….WHEN WOMEN LIKE YOU WANT TO LIVE ABOVE UR AVERAGE WAGE ….YOU ALL WILL EVEN SLEEP WID MANGEE DAWGGG TO UPHOLD A LIFESTYLE NOONES CARES ABOUT…

    YOU. HAD THE AUDACITY TO SAY UR A WOMAN OF CLASS…WHAT FUKKIN CLASS.(no class…whore)…NEITHER CLASS NOR VIRTUE UR A WELL PAID WHORE…..NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS….

    This is an example of these politicians exploitation of power…poor WIVES ..WHO HAS TO ALSO TURN A BLIND EYE TO HUSBANDS BEHAVIOR TO KEEP LIVING A LIFESTYLE OF SHAME & HUMILIATION…

    • Why you gotta include all that filth??? This type of conduct/commentary is classless all the same!!! She might be a whore, according to you, but you are proving yourself to be a partially educated gutter snipe.

  12. Instead of considering what you should do to get him back, you should realize that he or any other married man had belonged to you in the first place. There is something we term as “God cuss”. You need to cut your losses and maybe a single man may be able to fulfill that manly role in your life and in the same breath share a little respectability with you. You now would need to match his stature or role in life.

  13. Differently!!! This girl sounds like she has a serious case of low self-esteem. This can come about from a number of things which many of us will never understand. My advise would be to seek counselling. You are worth more than you know!

    By the way, how nobody cussing the polititcans/men as they are the ones who are cheating on the wives. Women always receive the lash, when in alot of cases, they are the ones being pursued.

        • Not saying we don’t consider 2 sides of the story nor nothing of the sort, she’s the one putting herself with them because of this “stature” and she’s writing after she ‘by mistake’ sent a pic of them to his wife..like realllyy? If the man says to rock back for a lil bit she needs to chill, so yea everyone gonna jump on her back now unfortunately that’s life

    • Well if a married man pursues me,i do not have to reciprocate,its the Woman’s choice. If she gets in a relationship with the married man and he decides to end it (which normally happens) she should be woman enough to move on and leave the man alone. Why should anyone on here be cursing the Men,why because they are Politicians? Well politicians are Humans.. She needs to get a dam life and get some self esteem,she obviously is prepared to sell herself cheap for materialism.. This post sounds disgusting anyway.. And is it any response that is posted here? Get better than this editors..

  15. She is gonna end up.with a veneral disease, that’s one. Kate you can’t do jack for her. She has made up her mind to lay on her back with soci men, gal careful. Take heed and be careful. Work for what you want.

  16. since when politician are high class u just sick any woman that lower them self and sleep with a politician is sick especially the ones that go both ways

  17. Leme see if I get this clear in me head
    You been playing around with married politicians
    But “I cannot date a low-class man”

    Class has nothing to do with power or money, you bin scraping the bottom of the barrel. Go talk to someone to get your head straight. Why you think that any man that is cheating on his wife is gunna look after you?

  20. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@ john dow. Thats the thing with us women u already know the situation the man say just cool but u had to go send pic lol just collect your money and bill… Thats why I don’t envy MOST of you quote on quote HIGH CLASS women in antigua cause y’all know what u do to get things. Looking flashy on the book and the gram but y’all life sad and miserable. On the other note is this where Barbuda million dollar donations been going to? Side chicks? πŸ˜‘πŸ˜© @fumemouth u sound very bitter are u the one who wrote this letter to late or is the chick your sister? Anyone begging someone to help them get back a married man for money is more than distasteful. Its not even low self esteem is vanity greed competition but memba y’all go dead lef um…

    • I said she needs counselling cause she sounds like she has very low self esteem. I never encouraged this young lady to go back to the people them man. No relation, just speaking objectively and unbiasly. Deffinitely not bitter; you probably meant biased but that’s another story. Caio!

  21. I think u know what u were doing was wrong I think u like being number 2 , the mistress. U need to let go that kind of lifestyle. U can do better! U can get a man for yourself. Think of yourself more highly than that. U need spiritual and mental cleansing so u can move on from that state of being. Arise ! And be the woman u know are! A queen who depands a king

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