I have a thing for young girls. I want to add quickly that I will never knowingly engage in anything sexual with someone below 16. Once they are 16 and over they can come my way.
I am 33 this year but people my own age don’t attract me at all. My cut off date is 25 years for anyone who I am to be romantic with, anyone older I keep as friends.
My preferred age range means that the people who I want to date are often still in high-school.
I feel like I will be looked down upon for my preference given the age gap.
Is something wrong with me or am I okay keeping it above the legal age? Can those young girls put me in trouble?
Nice N’ Young
Dear Nice N Young,
I don’t think there is something wrong with you but wanting girls in highschool don’t speak of your maturity.
It means you probably aren’t necessarily looking for a serious relationship. Perhaps you want to be in one you can control.
We all have temperaments and preferences but should we always let it take over our judgment?
A high-school girl cannot add much to a serious relationship. In high-school, most young girls are about fun and frolic even though they are really supposed to be interested in their education.
You don’t have a problem but you will soon have major problems if you continue to pursue immature high schoolers or 16-year-olds.
Let young people enjoy their youth and look upon women who are within your age range.