{"id":9209,"date":"2017-11-13T17:45:24","date_gmt":"2017-11-13T21:45:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=9209"},"modified":"2017-11-13T17:45:24","modified_gmt":"2017-11-13T21:45:24","slug":"dear-kate-my-cousins-husband-is-cheating-should-i-tell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/dear-kate-my-cousins-husband-is-cheating-should-i-tell\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR KATE: My cousin’s husband is cheating, should I tell?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,<\/strong><\/p>

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I can\u2019t tell my cousin that her husband is seeing another woman because she will die. Literally. I saw him and this young girl together several times and now she is pregnant. If I tell my cousin she might turn against me.\u00a0 She adores, love and worship her husband and could never even think he would do something like that. But he is and I hate him for it. When she finds out she will be crushed. Should I remain silent? Or should I tell her?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Loving cousin<\/strong><\/p>

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Dear loving cousin,<\/p>

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Well if you think your cousin will die \u201cliterally\u201d then you don\u2019t want her blood on your hands. I think you should \u201chush\u201d because she\u2019s going to find out sooner rather than later, especially if this woman is indeed pregnant. Just prepare to be there for your cousin when the news breaks. Your comfort and love might just be what she need to grapple with the devastation.<\/p>\n

Best Kate<\/p>

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Dear Kate, I can\u2019t tell my cousin that her husband is seeing another woman because she will die. Literally. I saw him and this young girl together several times and now she is pregnant. 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