{"id":7171,"date":"2017-09-11T08:18:56","date_gmt":"2017-09-11T12:18:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=7171"},"modified":"2017-09-11T08:18:56","modified_gmt":"2017-09-11T12:18:56","slug":"i-think-my-husband-is-cheating-with-his-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/i-think-my-husband-is-cheating-with-his-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"I think my husband is cheating with his Ex"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,<\/p>

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My husband left our home during Hurricane Irma to go to ensure the home of his children\u2019s mother was safe, even though the children are in the U.S.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to sound like a jealous wife but I suspect something could be happening between them.<\/p>

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Why would he even care whether she is alright or not when they are separated for over six years now. Am I being unreasonable?<\/p>

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I just feel in my spirit there was more to this help than meets the eye. And it took him almost three hours at her house. I timed him.<\/p>\n

He said he had to help her board up and secure the place but I am thinking maybe that was not the only \u201cboarding\u201d going around. What do you think?<\/p>

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VEX<\/p>\n

Dear VEX,<\/p>

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You do sound like a jealous wife. A cold hearted one at that. If your now husband has children with this woman I see nothing wrong with checking up on her during a serious storm like Irma irrespective of whether the children are actually in the home or not. She is their mother. It seems you have trust issues with your husband and you need to work on that.<\/p>

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To even time your husband is evidence of some serious insecurities and I believe this will destroy your marriage, consider that it has already started to affect you.<\/p>\n

Seek some help. I cannot help you with your insecurities or lack of trust. But I can suggest that you seek professional help.<\/p>\n

Kate<\/p>\n

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