{"id":6934,"date":"2017-09-04T07:59:48","date_gmt":"2017-09-04T11:59:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=6934"},"modified":"2017-09-04T07:59:48","modified_gmt":"2017-09-04T11:59:48","slug":"my-fiance-is-a-fraud","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/my-fiance-is-a-fraud\/","title":{"rendered":"My Fianc\u00e9 is a fraud"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Kate,<\/p>

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I am going to get married to one of the most diabolical liars and con artists in history.<\/p>\n

Seriously speaking. And I am beginning to think that I was tricked into this relationship.<\/p>

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I noticed on our first date he spent a lot of money and I was impressed. Only to find out he took out a loan to impress me… (you don’t ask me how I know).<\/p>

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I didn’t think anything of it. I figured to myself that he just wanted to make sure I had everything I wanted on our first date.<\/p>\n

Then once I was settled with him, all kinds of people kept calling him about money that he owed.\u00a0 I heard him say one time he had to do medical surgery and started collecting money. Kate that wasn’t true.<\/p>

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And the thing just kept going on. Tricking one person to another for material things. We have a lot of things at home and I don’t know where it’s coming from. I am worried I might be marrying someone that could endanger my life.<\/p>\n

Afraid<\/p>

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Dear Afraid,<\/p>

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Clearly, \u001byour life is under some kind of threat based on what you’ve said. The writing was on the wall since the first date. You have every reason to be very afraid. I suggest you reconsider your future with this man, lest you find yourself in a situation that you cannot get out of. Take my advice.<\/p>\n

Kate<\/p>\n

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