{"id":6764,"date":"2017-08-28T12:52:16","date_gmt":"2017-08-28T16:52:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=6764"},"modified":"2017-08-28T12:52:16","modified_gmt":"2017-08-28T16:52:16","slug":"i-want-to-punish-my-husband-for-cheating-on-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/i-want-to-punish-my-husband-for-cheating-on-me\/","title":{"rendered":"I want to punish my husband for cheating on me"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,<\/p>

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I have been married to my husband for five years and we have been together for even longer.<\/p>\n

We have two children together and for the most part a very good marriage.\u00a0That is until I found out that he cheated on me and may have done so more than once.<\/p>

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I felt and am feeling extremely hurt and betrayed. The thing is the only way that I am going to feel better is if I give another man sex because I know it would bother my husband.<\/p>

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I keep fantasizing about being with another man the way I do with my husband to punish him for cheating on me.<\/p>\n

I know it is not right, but the only reason that I haven’t cheated as yet is because it is hard to find a decent man.<\/p>

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Please advise me on how to find a \u2018kip man\u2019 that is willing to service me sexually with the understanding that I am not leaving my husband.<\/p>\n

Is something wrong with me being willing to punish my husband for what he did?<\/p>

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For Better or Worse<\/p>

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Dear for Better or Worse,<\/p>\n

If you think sleeping with another man is going to make you feel better then you are dead wrong. In fact, you will become the same as your husband “a cheater”. I am sorry to burst your bubble but you cannot find the advice on “finding a kip man” from me. In fact, my advice to you is to sit with your husband and find out what caused him to cheat on you.<\/p>\n

Most times men are just curious and downright naughty and cheating to them can be more egoistic than anything. Let your husband know the detriments of cheating which include divorce, diseases and death. Yes death.<\/p>\n

If you love your husband and want to save your marriage then cheating won’t help. What you should be trying to do is forgive your husband. Leave vengeance to the maker. Remember he says: “I will repay”. Punishing your husband for having sex with another woman is not yours to do. Because you would require the same punishment when you cheat.<\/p>\n

Kate<\/p>\n

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