{"id":2910,"date":"2017-06-12T09:51:03","date_gmt":"2017-06-12T13:51:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=2910"},"modified":"2017-07-23T17:35:22","modified_gmt":"2017-07-23T17:35:22","slug":"dear-kate-wife-wont-give-me-sex-after-she-traveled","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/dear-kate-wife-wont-give-me-sex-after-she-traveled\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Kate, Wife Won\u2019t Give Me Sex After She Traveled"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Something is going on with my wife. She traveled to the US last in March and when she came home she no longer wants to give me sex. She was never like that. She was a maniac. We would do it anytime anywhere. Now since that trip it\u2019s like she placed a padlock on the kitty. She does everything else. She cooks, wash, takes care of the kids and cleans the house. She just won\u2019t give me sex anymore. Do you think she found someone? Do you think she is being unfaithful? I am worried that I might be losing her.<\/p>\n

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Dear Fidgety,<\/p>\n

I cannot know what has brought on this sudden lack of sexual interest in you by your wife. What I do know is that a woman can withhold sex from her husband for many reasons. For argument sake let\u2019s just say she had an affair abroad. I don\u2019t think that would prevent her from having sex with her husband. You need to first talk to your wife and explain to her what you\u2019ve just told me. Ask her why she isn\u2019t intimate with you anymore. Most often than not, a woman uses sex to punish her husband for something he did, especially if it relates to another woman. So, examine yourself. See if there\u2019s anything you may have done. Cheated perhaps? The answer to your problems might be right in front of you.<\/p>

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