{"id":24403,"date":"2019-02-21T14:42:47","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T18:42:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=24403"},"modified":"2019-02-21T14:42:49","modified_gmt":"2019-02-21T18:42:49","slug":"dear-kate-hr-manager-and-secretary-in-steamy-love-affair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/dear-kate-hr-manager-and-secretary-in-steamy-love-affair\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR KATE: HR Manager And Secretary In Steamy Love Affair"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,<\/p>

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The human resource manager where I work is having an affair with her secretary. They are both females.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I left a flash drive at work that I had saved my evening classes file upon and I had no choice but to return to the office for them.<\/p>

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It was around after 7pm and when I went into the office, I was so shocked by what I encountered. Kate they didn\u2019t see me.<\/p>

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It is too explicit what I saw but use your imagination.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This has devasted me for weeks to the point where I want to quit my job; one I have had for eleven years.<\/p>

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Now everything became clear to me why this young lady started as a messenger and was promoted to the personal secretary of the HR manger even if she isn\u2019t qualified.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am sad and it has affected my work.<\/p>

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Should I quit my job?<\/p>

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Shocked Staff<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dear Shocked Staff,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You have no control what people do with their lives and the same goes for you so leaving a job you have spent the past eleven years at may not be very wise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Going to confront either of them could also cost you your job too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I understand it is affecting you and may have left a very bad taste in your mouth but what can you do really?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Its sad you had to see this but I admonish you to focus on your work<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some things we just have to leave alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kate<\/p>\n

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