{"id":23190,"date":"2019-01-07T12:22:33","date_gmt":"2019-01-07T16:22:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=23190"},"modified":"2019-01-07T12:22:35","modified_gmt":"2019-01-07T16:22:35","slug":"dear-kate-i-like-them-young","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/dear-kate-i-like-them-young\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR KATE: I like them young"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,
I have a thing for young girls. I want to add quickly that I will never knowingly\u00a0engage in anything sexual with someone below 16. Once they are 16 and over they can come my way.
I am 33 this year but people my own age don’t attract me at all. My cut off date is 25 years for anyone who I am to be romantic with, anyone older I keep as friends.
My preferred age range means that the people who I want to date are often still in high-school.
I feel like I will be looked down upon for my preference given the age gap.
Is something wrong with me or am I okay keeping it above the legal age? Can those young girls put me in trouble?

Nice N’ Young <\/p>

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Dear Nice N Young,<\/p>\n\n\n\n


I don’t think there is something wrong with you but wanting girls in highschool don’t speak of your maturity.
It means you probably aren’t necessarily looking for a serious relationship. Perhaps you want to be in one you can control.\u00a0
We all have temperaments and preferences but should we always let it take over our judgment?\u00a0
A high-school girl cannot add much to a serious relationship. In high-school, most young girls are about fun and frolic even though they are really supposed to be interested in their education.
You don’t have a problem but you will soon have major problems if you continue to pursue immature high schoolers or 16-year-olds.
Let young people enjoy their youth and look upon women who are within your age range.\u00a0 <\/p>

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Kate<\/p>

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