{"id":22882,"date":"2018-12-21T08:16:35","date_gmt":"2018-12-21T12:16:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=22882"},"modified":"2018-12-21T08:16:36","modified_gmt":"2018-12-21T12:16:36","slug":"dear-kate-the-two-other-women-in-my-life-are-very-demanding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/dear-kate-the-two-other-women-in-my-life-are-very-demanding\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR KATE: The two other women in my life are very demanding"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,<\/p>

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I am a married man with a family and every time the season comes around, I am sad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sad because there are two other women in my life that are very demanding.<\/p>

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Last year, I was left broke because of course you have to keep your side chicks happy for the holidays especially when you can\u2019t really spend time with them as you would want to.<\/p>

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This one girl who I love a lot told me that she wanted to travel for the holidays so I decided to get a ticket to go to Santo Domingo to see her family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I gave her a blank check because she wasn\u2019t quite sure how much the ticket was. When I checked my account, she cashed out $5000. <\/p>

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Now my wife is wondering why I withdrew such a large amount.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I told her it was to buy gifts for the family. So, she\u2019s expecting an expensive gift and the children are too.<\/p>

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But I won\u2019t be able to do that because I know the truth.<\/p>

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Now the other girlfriend I have just asked me $1000 which is what I gave her last year to get her hair done and look good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t know what to do. I could lose all three of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Depressed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hello Depressed,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apparently, you got yourself into this mess. First of all, you have a wife and children and two other women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It seems to me you are having issues juggling your three women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever thought about just being faithful to your wife? After all it may save you a lot of headache and even a buck or two.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The end to your problem I believe; really depends on your ability to let go of these extra marital affairs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kate<\/p>\n

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