{"id":16890,"date":"2018-06-25T08:41:48","date_gmt":"2018-06-25T12:41:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=16890"},"modified":"2018-06-25T08:41:48","modified_gmt":"2018-06-25T12:41:48","slug":"my-boss-cant-get-with-me-now-hes-upset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/my-boss-cant-get-with-me-now-hes-upset\/","title":{"rendered":"My boss can’t get with me now he’s upset"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,<\/p>

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My boss is blackmailing me. Well, I won’t call it blackmail really. It’s like he is the owner of the place and because he can’t sleep with me like every other female employee, all of a sudden my work is bad.<\/div>\n
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All of a sudden I can’t do my job and he frustrates me. I saved his wassap messages asking me to go out with him.<\/div>\n
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Now he looks at my every move. Calls me up if I’m two minutes late and even monitor how much time I’m on my cell.<\/div>\n
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I know if I give myself to him he will ease up but I have more value than that. What should I do?<\/div>\n
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Working Class<\/div>\n
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Dear Working Class<\/div>\n
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There are laws that can help you. The labour laws are strict on matters like these. He can even lose his business if he is guilty of using his power to manipulate staff to sleep with him<\/div>\n
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You are doing the right thing. Stand your ground. Do your work to the best of your ability.<\/div>\n
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Don’t be intimidated by his threats. Don’t walk out on your job. Seek to get acquainted with the labour codes. Speak with a union representative for advice.<\/div>\n
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Go as far as the labour minister of you have to. The media won’t ever shy away from a story like that. (That is of course if he doesn’t stop frustrating you).<\/div>\n
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Perhaps it’s time to expose the monsters. You might just be saving another sister who is silently screaming for help.<\/div>\n
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Kate<\/div>\n
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