{"id":13803,"date":"2018-03-26T07:33:19","date_gmt":"2018-03-26T11:33:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/?p=13803"},"modified":"2018-04-14T15:14:54","modified_gmt":"2018-04-14T19:14:54","slug":"i-have-had-the-hots-for-my-stepdaughter-since-she-was-twelve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antiguanewsroom.com\/i-have-had-the-hots-for-my-stepdaughter-since-she-was-twelve\/","title":{"rendered":"I have had the hots for my stepdaughter since she was twelve"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Kate,<\/p>

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I need some advice regarding my 16 yo stepdaughter.<\/div>\n
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I have been a father figure to her since she was 4 but I noticed that I have been having perverse thoughts about her since she was about 12.<\/div>\n
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I constantly look at her blooming body when she\u2019s around the house. This has made me an overprotective stepdad about what she wears when she goes out.<\/div>\n
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I go to her room and sniff her worn panties in her hamper.<\/div>\n
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I even secretly take pictures of her when she is not aware of it.<\/div>\n
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I love her and would never act on what I feel but it\u2019s driving me crazy. Please advise.<\/div>\n
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George<\/div>\n
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You are a poor excuse for a stepfather yo. Somehow i get the feeling some of these letters are made up. But let’s just pretend this is true; then you clearly have overstepped the line.<\/p>\n

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You cannot truly love a child you have raised since she was 4 years old and have these thoughts about her.<\/div>\n
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You claim you will never act on your feelings but you are already acting by taking pics of her and sniffing her underwear.<\/div>\n
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Have you ever even thought about her mother in all of this? I guess you are so caught up in your lust over your stepdaughter’s young flesh; you forgot about mommy?<\/div>\n
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I can tell you this; you will eventually get yourself into trouble if you don’t seek professional help to deal with this.<\/div>\n
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You are also abusing your daughter by not allowing her to enjoy the best of her teenage years but being overprotective about what she wears and so on.<\/div>\n
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Your actions are not even because you care so much about her but your selfish nature.<\/div>\n
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You may eventually have to end up leaving the house if your behaviour persists, lest you end up in a situation that could ruin the rest of your like…yo<\/div>\n
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Kate<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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