At the funeral of the late MP Asot Michael, his niece Marissa Michael delivered a deeply personal tribute, painting a vivid picture of a man who was not just an uncle but a guiding force in her life. With heartfelt words, she recounted his influence on her upbringing, values, and aspirations.
“Many know me as Asot’s niece, but to me, Uncle Asot was not just my uncle and godfather—he was like a second father,” she began. “His influence shaped how I see the world and my place in it.”
Marissa described how her uncle’s teachings helped her understand her identity as a proud daughter of Antigua and Barbuda. Reflecting on her earliest memories, she recalled a powerful lesson from her uncle: “Let me tell you something, child—we would not be who we are today if it were not for the people of Antigua opening their arms and their houses to our great-grandparents. You must always remember that and always be grateful.”
These words, she shared, became a cornerstone of her identity. “Though we are of Lebanese descent, Uncle Asot instilled in me the undeniable truth: I am Antiguan,” she said.
As a child, Marissa was exposed to her uncle’s deep connection with his community and his passion for public service. She fondly remembered participating in his campaigns, including reciting key points from his manifesto during the 2004 elections at just seven years old.
“I enjoyed the bounce castles and mechanical rides at his Christmas parties alongside the children of St. Peter,” she said. “But even then, I was learning about the value of service and the strides the Labour Party made for this country.”
She also recalled family Sundays at Dry Hill, where her uncle hosted guests ranging from local leaders like Sir Lester Bird to international dignitaries. “As an only child, I often found myself sitting on the gallery with adults, listening to conversations that expanded my worldview,” she said.
Despite growing up with privilege, Marissa emphasized that her uncle taught her humility and the importance of service. “Though a silver spoon may have been on my place setting, I learned to serve with it,” she shared. “Whether it was fetching drinks for guests or helping with chores, Uncle Asot ensured I understood the value of respect and hospitality.”
These lessons, she said, shaped her personal and professional journey. Now pursuing a surgical residency, she credits her ability to connect with people and her unwavering dedication to her uncle’s influence.
Marissa spoke about her uncle’s steadfast support for her dreams. “Uncle Asot always encouraged me to dream big,” she said. “After my parents, he was my biggest supporter, often outshining them in the publicity department.”
She humorously recalled refraining from sharing some of her medical school accomplishments with him, knowing he would circulate them widely. “His love language was giving, and few things brought him as much joy as seeing happiness in others,” she added.
Marissa reflected on her uncle’s love for life and generosity. “He introduced us to the finest experiences, whether in Miami, New York, London, or Berlin,” she said. “Even when he had no desire to see a show or eat at a restaurant himself, he delighted in ensuring we experienced it.”
Through these acts, she learned not only to live life fully but also to appreciate the joy of giving and sharing with others.
In her closing remarks, Marissa expressed her gratitude for the indelible mark her uncle left on her life. “Uncle Asot, thank you for being a guiding force in my life. Your lessons, your love, and your belief in me have shaped the person I am today,” she said.
While acknowledging the world’s loss of a brilliant leader, she reflected on her personal loss. “I promise you, Uncle Asot, your legacy will live on in me, your family, and in the hearts of everyone you touched. May you rest in peace knowing you made this world better for all of us.”
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