DEAR KATE: My father pays younger girls for sex

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Dear Kate,

Is my father involved in prostitution? I found out that he pays women for sex. He is 67 and all his children are adults.

I am 36 and my sister is 33 and my brother is 29. I don’t understand how my father can be an example to us and behaving like that.

I am ashamed because some of the women he does this thing with are my friends. He has his money and he takes care of his family when he has to.

For example, if I call him to help me finically he does but Kate I don’t want my father giving young girls money just to have sex.

I want him to settle down with someone who can take care of him. He and my mom are no longer together. They parted years ago and while my mom is now settled, he lives a reckless life. I want to talk to him but he is so savage. Jah…I am worried about my father.

Child in Distress

 

Hello Child in Distress,

Don’t distress yourself about the likes of senior citizens who are seemingly going through a middle-aged crisis, thinking that their time will soon end hence the need to explore the variety of females.

But if you feel that your father’s ways are affecting you then just go to him. If he discards you because of his ego I am pretty sure in his thoughts he would have registered your concern and maybe change his ways. Or maybe not.

Adults have to be responsible for what they do. Your father is not a child and if he cannot be an example to his children then leave him to the world.

What you put into the universe is what gets out. Just make sure that you in turn never sleep with any man for material gains. Pray for your father. He can change. And even if he doesn’t, then it would be to his own detriment.

Sometimes you have to let people live their life and learn from their mistakes. I am pretty sure your father knows what he is doing is wrong and of course, sin is sweet so he will continue to indulge until it’s too late.

Say something to your “old man”, reason with him. Let him know your concerns.

Let him know he can get a disease, he can become broke, he can become a burden to his children if he were to end up in any situation like that.

And my dear, if he doesn’t listen then leave the man alone.

Kate

15 COMMENTS

  1. Lmaoooo….. Really????…men have been sleeping with young Gyal n paying dem 4 it…..where de he’ll have you been living ……

    Ohhh…I guess you jus found now ur dad has been doing that…lmaooooo…

    These older men dnt want to be in no relationship….I have money …..Gyal how much…..LET me get off n go ur way …NO STRESSING ….

    You really think a young Gyal want your dad and dared be seen with him..jus finesse his a** and get paid…

    You n ur siblings will take care of him if and when you all have too …jus let the gurrrrlllzzz tel care of his needs…and STOP you holier than thou “rude”….

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  2. *attitude….

    Or you fraid young Gyal getting all the money so when you need \want money …non dey…. Or your really worried if you will end up paying for care if and when he needs it and you dnt want to …..hhhhmmmmm

    I sensing the latter…

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  3. De manna “lib life” jack. Or so he thinks. Those young females don’t care as long as they get their money. He needs to find someone he can cool and kick back with. Someone who won’t mind that his wrinkle sagging balls hanging down or that he has to keep up with his Viagra intake. When he has found such a person, then you can quit worrying about him a bit.

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  4. what is new here 69%of women probably had some form of financial transactions with sex and the next 31% would probably do it if the money is right most women got an asking price. ..that is y I suggest to men not to marry these bitches they will sex on u……if men do there investigations they would find out that there wife is sleeping with multiple men ,and it is pretty easy to set that up …….try it guys u will see that she not sleeping with u alone she might even have 2 or three guys banging her and doing things she would not do with you…..open up your mind guys dont get married u Making a wrong move they will cheat. ..

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  5. what is new here 69%of women probably had some form of financial transactions with sex and the next 31% would probably do it if the money is right most women got an asking price. ..that is y I suggest to men not to marry these bitches they will sex on u……if men do there investigations they would find out that there wife is sleeping with multiple men ,and it is pretty easy to set that up …….try it guys u will see that she not sleeping with u alone she might even have 2 or three guys banging her and doing things she would not do with you…..open up your mind guys dont get married u Making a wrong move they will cheat. ..

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  6. Let the man have his time, shit how many “cougars” out there doing the damn same thing and worst….”if you need it and can’t get it for free, pay for it”

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  7. 1 Kate heard one side of a possible situation and came to a conclusion “I am pretty sure your father knows what he is doing is wrong”
    2 Kate how do you know this? Don’t distress yourself about the likes of senior citizens who are seemingly going through a middle-aged crisis”
    3 How did you determine what the man is thinking and you never spoke to him. “thinking that their time will soon end”
    KATE I FIND YOUR COMMENTS ARE SELF RIGHTEOUS HOW IS IT YOU KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT EVERYTHING EVEN A JUDGE LISTENS TO TWO SIDES BEFORE COMING TO ANY CONCLUSION.

    Advise can be given without infringing on the rights of a third party. Why condemn people from a one sided point.

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    • Dear Tony,

      My name is ‘KATE’ that’s what, not a judge but just ‘KATE’ and I’m allowed to do that.

      Respectfully Yours,
      Kate

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