Is my father involved in prostitution? I found out that he pays women for sex. He is 67 and all his children are adults.
I am 36 and my sister is 33 and my brother is 29. I don’t understand how my father can be an example to us and behaving like that.
I am ashamed because some of the women he does this thing with are my friends. He has his money and he takes care of his family when he has to.
For example, if I call him to help me finically he does but Kate I don’t want my father giving young girls money just to have sex.
I want him to settle down with someone who can take care of him. He and my mom are no longer together. They parted years ago and while my mom is now settled, he lives a reckless life. I want to talk to him but he is so savage. Jah…I am worried about my father.
Child in Distress
Hello Child in Distress,
Don’t distress yourself about the likes of senior citizens who are seemingly going through a middle-aged crisis, thinking that their time will soon end hence the need to explore the variety of females.
But if you feel that your father’s ways are affecting you then just go to him. If he discards you because of his ego I am pretty sure in his thoughts he would have registered your concern and maybe change his ways. Or maybe not.
Adults have to be responsible for what they do. Your father is not a child and if he cannot be an example to his children then leave him to the world.
What you put into the universe is what gets out. Just make sure that you in turn never sleep with any man for material gains. Pray for your father. He can change. And even if he doesn’t, then it would be to his own detriment.
Sometimes you have to let people live their life and learn from their mistakes. I am pretty sure your father knows what he is doing is wrong and of course, sin is sweet so he will continue to indulge until it’s too late.
Say something to your “old man”, reason with him. Let him know your concerns.
Let him know he can get a disease, he can become broke, he can become a burden to his children if he were to end up in any situation like that.
And my dear, if he doesn’t listen then leave the man alone.