DEAR KATE: My attraction to straight men hurting my pocket

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Dear Kate,
As far as I remember, I have never been attracted to gay men although I am also gay.
You may find this strange as gays are normally attracted to each other and it makes for less hassle if gays simply stick to their own kind.
I am different in that I am only attracted who straight men.
While I have friends of all genders and sexual orientations when it comes to physical attraction, its only straight men.
The only way to woo straight men is by spending on them and that’s where my problem lies.
To convince a straight man to do anything with you then you must have enough money to bargain.
It often involves a large amount for any physical contact in the first instance and more every time pleasure is involved.
It’s not just cash but things that cost money too like Jordan shoes and clothing for various events.
This is expensive and just imagine having to spend those monies on multiple straight guys.
I make a decent pay but I am by no means wealthy. I believe I may have an obsession with straight men which is hurting my pocket.
I have my own expenses and I have even resorted to staying hungry to make my guys happy.
Kate, do I have a problem or is it just about negotiating better with my men?
Pennywise  

 

Dear Pennywise:

What a hot mess!!! Oh did I say I just say that aloud?
Well, it could be as a result of the trauma my brain experienced after reading your letter.
So you’re gay, but not attracted to gay men? Only straight ones who you have to pay to get together with? And now you’re broke?
Ok, first of all, I think you’re taking that gay thing to another level.
If you have to pay straight men to be with you; then they aren’t really straight once you’ve had them right?
And straight men don’t just get down and dirty with gay men for “Jordans”… so this means they were never straight in the first place.
This brings me to my other point…Your liking for straight men is just in your head. The men who claimed they were straight that you had to pay were never straight.
Pennywise…I don’t think you have a problem but I will advise you to stick to your circle, you might save a buck or two.
Kate

16 COMMENTS

  1. Looollll
    This is the funniest Dear Kate story I have read so far
    Kate u ah kill me😅😅😅😅

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  2. I SWEAR THESE ?S….

    If any man says …IM STRAIGHT ___PUSSIE ONLY…THEN BE WOOED BY JORDANS AND OTHER MATERIAL THEY WERE NEVER STRAIGHT …..their sexuality was based on highest bidder…based on who can give me material things…

    YOUNG LADIES…YOUNG LADIES….YOUNG LADIES ….YOUNG LADIES…..PLEASE PAY ATTENTION

    YOUR LIFE IS AT RISK….

    THIS IS EXACTLY WHY YOUNG LADIES .&..WOMEN …..NEED TO BE VERY CAREFUL BCOS THESE MALES IN ANTIGUA ARE BULLAHS__when the price is right …..it’s not ONLY these young men it’s also these married men…..

    YOUNG PPL LAZY …..WANT TO BE IN EVERYTHING ….EVERY FETE…EVERY BOATRIDE… THOSE YOU HAVE TO FIGHT TO KEEP JOB OR TO GET A JOB…AND IM STILL WAITING ON ALL THIS PROMISES OF NEW JOBS THRU INVESTMENT…where are the jobbbbbbbbssss that were promised….

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  3. number 1 these men are not straight of money can convince them to sleep or to pleasure you. B.S. I do not support such sexual orientation.

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  4. What are you looking for? Is it love or flings? Money cannot buy LOVE. It can buy you lost and pleasure but not true love. If it’s lust you want, then you can continue down that road, but be prepared to deal with ALL the consequences. Time to do some introspection.

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  5. As everyone has commented about these so call guys condition of claiming to being straight and the commentators are so right.

    These guys were never straight in the first place. They may have seemed straight, but their minds were not.

    BTW there is no love in being gay…so continue waste your money, your time, your mind and your soul. Why not try not being

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  6. I think I lost a few brain cells after reading this. First of all they weren’t straight if they were willing to be with you for money, second you on another level. Stay with your own people.

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  7. Sexuality is a little more complicated than what all of ur prejudiced sexually immature minds can comprehend.. Let me ask this becus its possible, if a gay guy has sex with a woman for money does that make him straight.. Our culture of simplicty and backwardness when it comes to sexuality is at times laughable!!!

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    • @ Ivanno-Why do you people want to force your sick evil thinking on others? What about sexuality is there to understand? Last time i checked there were two genders,Male& Female.SEX is something that happens between 2 persons of opposite genders,whatever your Sexually immature mind conceive as Sex,is nothing more than Perversion and Sodomy,there is nothing sexual about Buggery..

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  8. Think that Kate can be less subjective in the responses. I dont think people write to you with the expectation of being judged especially in a condescending manner. Using the words like “taking that gay thing to another level” sounds pretty homophobic and as the host you should aim to answer questions with an open mind and objectively, heck-maybe even a little play of devils advocate. Think your responses would be much more enjoyable if you turn down the seemingly religious tone.
    Ciao.

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    • Kate you right.. Do not let anyone tell you how to think,the dam upholder is worse than the thief,you dont have to appear to accept anything that you are not in agreement with..

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      • It is not about being in agreement; it is about answering the questions objectively. People are writing for help, not to be judged. Clearly, the teacher is better than the student cuz you fail to understand that.

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  9. Sexuality has many nuances. It is not black and white as we in the caribbean would like to think. Straight women finds themselves attrated to other women; it doesnt make them a lesbian. If a man has sex with another man in exchange for goods does that make him gay? If a woman has sex with another woman for goods does that make her a lesbian? They may be looking at the situation from an objectively opportunistic level without thought of a specific sexual orientation. OPPORTUNIST is the operative word here. Not gay, not straight, not “bi”; the men he is engaging with are OPPORTUNIST.
    And with that, I think Pennywise may be pound foolish in the sense that he is looking for a better financial arrangement with persons that he only has a fascination with. Can’t have your cake and eat it too my friend. Gotta pay for your fantasies.They are well aware of your lust, and therefore will always be looking to receive their end of the bargain.

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