There is something wrong with me. I have been in relationships with at least four politicians from the same party.
I know it looks like I might be just being passed around like a hand towel but it is really not like that. As a matter of fact, I don’t think they know about each other.
The thing about it Kate is that I cannot date a low-class man. I am a woman of stature and I have to look a certain way and have certain things and only men of that caliber can give it to me.
Now this last man of mine which I’ve had for about 7 months now told me we have to end it because elections are around the corner and we need not give the other side anything to attack him with because he’s married.
Now I got angry and I accidentally sent a pic of us to his wife. Now he wants nothing to do with me. I’m worried that I may never get another man like him.
I can’t manage another politician in my bed. Help me get him back Kate.
Even if I had the powers to help you get this man back, I’m not sure I would. Firstly he is married. Secondly, you’re with him for the wrong reasons.
Thirdly, you’re a dangerous mistress and fourthly, I think you’ve had just about enough politicians to last you the rest of your life.
Now having said all of that, there must be a renewal of your mind if you ought to get your life straightened out.
In fact, there’s hope. Why? Because you are still above ground. The first thing you need to do is humble yourself.
I mean get that mindset that you need to live a certain way and have certain things out of your head. All you need is to be comfortable.
And you don’t need a man of any “caliber ” to help you rise up. You should be able to do that all by yourself.
Know your worth. Forget about these men. Love yourself and sooner or later I’m sure you will find someone who can double up what these politicians ever did for you. And even if you don’t it will still be okay because you’ve got you!!
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