I cheated on my boyfriend and I cannot stop going back for more. My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years and lately, I became frustrated with his new job because he is never home.
Actually, he is a police officer and he’s always working late.
A friend from high school visited me and he stayed a few hours just talking to me one afternoon.
The night came and one thing leads to another and we had hot steamy sex. I felt bad afterward but every time my boyfriend leaves for work I would call him to get more.
Kate, it’s like this man cast a spell on me. I just keep going back and Its like I can’t stop.
He told me he loved me last night and that frightened me because I love my boyfriend. I don’t like this “friend” but I love his passion towards me.
I want to end it but I am worried I will miss the sex too much. How do you suggest I end it?
You asked me the wrong question. Your question should really be about telling your boyfriend that you have been two-timing him while he risks his life on the job.
I think you should keep your new lover. Because from all accounts you have no respect for your boyfriend. I could go as far as saying that you don’t love him (your real boyfriend) at all.
So, set him free and continue your “steamy” escapade with your “friend”, lest your boyfriend finds out and this turns out uglier than it already is.